Genderless
How do I explain what it's like to not have a gender? How can I describe something that has been a part of me for my entire life, the very…
885 Days Ago
I was looking through some old writing today and came across this. I wrote it 885 days ago, when I was 66 days sober. Sixty six days sober was pre-…
Not Offended
I've been out for over 20 years so you can imagine that I've had my fair share of situations where I've had to point out homophobic and transphobic language. When…
We’re Here, We’re Queer! – Noah’s Story
This month's installment of We're Here, We're Queer is different than prior months. I firmly believe that it's important for queer and trans folk in all kinds of recovery have…
Bye-bye Binary
There's this thing that's inside of me that I really need to get out into the open. It may not make sense to everyone but, to the people who know…
We’re Here, We’re Queer! – Lazarus’ Story
Folks, you have no idea how excited I am to bring you the story of fantastic, non binary, queer, cutie Lazarus Letcher!! Listen. I don't even remember what my life…
Supremely Fucked
I was driving from southern Connecticut to the north shore of Massachusetts when I heard it: "Supreme Court Justice Anthony Kennedy has resigned." I felt the wind get knocked out…
We’re Here, We’re Queer! – Lauren’s Story
I can't believe we're half way through Pride month already!! I hope everyone is having a fantastically, queer time and that you're able to take time for yourself when you…
We’re Here, We’re Queer – Jen’s Story
It’s the 15th of the month so that means it’s time for the next installment of We’re Here, We’re Queer!
I keep reading Jen’s story over and over because I love how she keeps changing and evolving with time, as things feel right for her. She just celebrated her nine years last week and I’m so excited to see what the future will bring for her.
Enjoy!
Another milestone in my sobriety journey recently occurred. I’ve now been sober for longer than I drank which is an astounding fact and one that continues to shock me. (more…)
Let’s talk about (not having) sex
Let's talk about sex, shall we? I logically know that not having sex nothing to be embarrassed about but realistically, it's been an embarrassingly long time since I've had sex…