I Am Not A Good Person
If there's one thing that's gotten in my way more than anything else, it's the idea that I need to be "the good one". At first glance, being good sounds…
New Year, New… Nope
New Year's resolutions. If you're anything like me, just reading that phrase made you roll your eyes or maybe feel a little sick to your stomach or possibly you felt…
1000 Days
One thousand days ago I woke up in Honolulu and said "no more." All I knew then was that I could see my future if I kept drinking and it…
Creating Our Own Community
Everyone wants to be part of the "in crowd," right? Our definitions of "in crowd" may be different but, the feeling is universal. We want to be a part of…
Genderless
How do I explain what it's like to not have a gender? How can I describe something that has been a part of me for my entire life, the very…
Not Offended
I've been out for over 20 years so you can imagine that I've had my fair share of situations where I've had to point out homophobic and transphobic language. When…
Bye-bye Binary
There's this thing that's inside of me that I really need to get out into the open. It may not make sense to everyone but, to the people who know…