Queer (and Sober) in the Time of COVID-19
I have a feeling that a lot of people right now are thinking that, by staying away from other people, they’re simply accepting the situation they’re in and letting things…
I have a feeling that a lot of people right now are thinking that, by staying away from other people, they’re simply accepting the situation they’re in and letting things…
People (mostly afab folks of all genders) reach out to me on a regular basis, telling me that they’ve just begun to realize that they aren’t straight or cis, but…
It’s no surprise for me to point out that we live in a society that centers straight, cis people. From the time we’re born, we’re bombarded with messages from family,…
I was born just before sunrise on the day after Thanksgiving in 1980. The story goes that I was two weeks late making my grand entrance into this world and…
The first clear memory I have of explicitly being told that who I am is wrong was when I was a kid. I don’t really know how old I was;…
I had a whole list of things to do today so, it stands to reason that I spent hours listening to the Michael Cohen hearing and then decided…
I recently had an exchange with a cishet guy on Instagram. It was on a post I made about how we shouldn't assume our kids are straight and the harm…
If there's one thing that's gotten in my way more than anything else, it's the idea that I need to be "the good one". At first glance, being good sounds…
New Year's resolutions. If you're anything like me, just reading that phrase made you roll your eyes or maybe feel a little sick to your stomach or possibly you felt…
I wanted to write about my holiday anxiety but, I'm not interested in adding to the sea of "how to beat your holiday anxiety" blog posts and articles out there.…